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FOCUS ON SPEAKING SKILLS 10/05/2013
Speaking Tips for Anyone Who Talks

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A STEADY FLOW OF SOUND ADVICE AND IDEAS at http://gettingoveryourself.wordpress.com

Take the next step in your speaking life by registering for our next “How to Overcome Stress in Public Speaking” 3-day workshop. Don't put it off.

WHEN: November 6, 7, 8, 2013 (See details below.)

All our books are now available as e-books on our website. Kindle versions are also available on Amazon.

Past newsletters are archived on my website, along with articles and tips to make you a better speaker. Go to www.GettingOverYourself.com.

In this issue:

  1. Are you boring them at the start?
  2. Dear teach
  3. How can I be in my right mind?
  4. Quotes can make it lively
  5. Take a look at our resource list
  6. Attend another workshop for half price
  7. November Workshop in Pasadena/ In-house seminars

ARE YOU BORING THEM AT THE START?

It's so tempting to start with what you're going to cover. Yet, it's almost impossible to say that in a way that will stop them from texting.

Regardless of the audience, there's something you can say that will let people know they need to listen up. Someone in a class this last week started with, “We have a problem.” He said it with authority and stopped to let it sink in.

Awhile ago someone started with, “First I'm going to give you a headache and then I'm going to give you an aspirin.”

So, for those of you who think your audience would be turned off if you did an opening, rather than start with what you're going to cover, you can see those two examples didn't take enough time for the audience to object.

For other audiences, you might start with a story or an example that illustrates your point, or some statistics that highlight the problem, or a current news story that's relevant.

It's hard to break the habit of announcing “this is what I'm going to talk about” as the first you say. But more people will listen if you do. Give them a reason to listen first, and then tell them what you're talking about.

It's more interesting and it should be easier for you, too.

DEAR TEACH

Tim Myatt, Engineer, Verizon:

“Your Public Speaking class was one of the best, if not the best class I have ever taken. It was very challenging for me, but you have excellent material and gave a lot of encouragement. It was great for my self-confidence and helps me personally as well as professionally. Thank you. I would recommend the class to anyone, no matter where they are in life or public speaking.”

HOW CAN I BE IN MY RIGHT MIND?

“You say to wait before starting, but that feels awkward with the audience expecting me to talk. How can I be in my right mind' before I start and still not ruffle the audience? ”

In class we do an exercise that allows you to know what your body is doing, be sure that you're breathing fully, and that you're clear on what you want to say. It's that habit that needs to embraced.

Once you realize that the goal is to be breathing, focused, and in your right mind, you can do that in a really short time. Bring yourself to the party. It feels hard because it's a new concept.

Embrace it, let yourself be aware of the situation and why you're there to help and it will take almost no time to get focused. And the time that it does take just makes you look more in control to the audience. They're glad the speaker is focused. All too often that's not the case.

QUOTES TO MAKE YOU A BETTER SPEAKER

“Judgements prevent us from seeing the good that lies beyond appearances. ” — Wayne Dyer

“We must accept finite disappointment, but never lose infinite hope.” — Martin Luther King, Jr.

“Remember that failure is an event, not a person. Yesterday ended last night. ” — Zig Ziglar

“Success seems to be connected with ACTION. Successful people keep moving. They make mistakes, but they don't quit.” — Conrad Hilton

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RE-ATTEND FOR HALF PRICE

As a refresher, workshop graduates may attend for half price at any time. People say they get as much or more out of the workshop the second time around. To register at the discounted price go to: www.gettingoveryourself.com/seminar/repeat.htm

WORKSHOP

“How to Overcome the Stress of Public Speaking”

Pasadena Sheraton: 3-day workshop November 6, 7, 8, 2013

I have two public seminars each year: Spring and Fall.

Registration for the 3-day workshop: $1095. Discount for three or more attendees from the same company.

If you have a number of people who could use this training, please call or e-mail regarding an in-house seminar.

Visit www.gettingoveryourself.com for details
or call (626) 792-8075.
Mailing address: P.O. Box 60521, Pasadena, CA 91116

BOOKS, AUDIO and VIDEO

Book

“Getting Over Yourself: A Guide to Painless Public Speaking and More” by Barbara Rocha, 210 pages, 2nd Edition, 2004, illustrated, cartoons   $19.95. (E-book Version   $13.95)

The basic text you'll definitely want to walk you through the pitfalls of public speaking. If you're not comfortable speaking, you must have this book.

CD ROM

The “Getting Over Yourself” book read by the author. (set of two): ($19.95)

Pocket-size books     $9.95 each
E-book Version     $5.99

“Pocket Guide for Presenters,” 103 pages

The Cliff Notes version of “Getting Over Yourself.” No cartoons, and less explanation of the whys and hows. Just the right size to take with you for a quick reminder of all those points you learned in the full size edition or in my seminar.

“60 Ways to Spark Your Speaking: Just in Time Answers to Frequently Asked Questions,” 154 pages

Answers specific questions you may have with “what to do when . . .” questions, such as how to deal with a boss who takes over during your presentation, or how to handle your visual aids in a crisis, or how to proceed if everyone is focused on your broken nose.

“Love to Talk, Hate to Speak? How to Gain Confidence in Front of Any Audience,” 121 pages

A collection of short vignettes on various parts of speaking you'd like to know more about, such as more information on holding the audience's attention at the end of your presentation, being confident in those first moments before you start to speak, or using the elements of a good conversation to make it easier and more natural speaking to a group.

Tips booklets $5. each. Can be ordered in quantity for a discount.

“111 Tips for Getting Results When You Speak”

“108 Tips for Engaging Your Audience and Solving Those Pesky Speaking Dilemmas”

“17 Myths of Speaking”

Speeches on tape:
“From Bored Room to Board Room,” $10.95

“Stand Up and Stand Out,” $10.95

DVD
“Getting Over Yourself: A Guide to Painless Public Speaking” featuring Barbara Rocha in excerpts from her book, seminar classes and interactive coaching. 48 minutes. $99.95

To Order:

Call (888) 800-2001

Order online at www.gettingoveryourself.com

E-mail: BouldinHil@aol.com

Write: Bouldin Hill Press at 17-555 Bubbling Wells Rd. Desert Hot Springs, CA 92241

Send a check for the amount of the order plus $3 for each item. For 3 or more items, add $2 per item. Or include your credit card information (name as shown on card, card billing address, expiration date and phone number), as well as shipping address.

For more information, contact:

Barbara Rocha and Associates

PO Box 60521, Pasadena, California 91116

(626) 792-8075



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